“I cook, I clean, I take care, but he doesn’t appreciate it” is a claim that almost every woman understands. What to do if a man is going to leave, despite all your efforts? Psychologists and relationship coaches are ready to give an answer.
Rule 1: give him what he needs
Each person is individual - this is an axiom. In the same way, his needs, expectations and requirements for family and relationships are individual. What might be important to your man?
- Silent understanding and acceptance;
- Verbal support and constructive advice;
- Emotional experiences, joint impressions;
- Diverse and regular sex;
- General outlook, interests, partnership;
- Cozy living and atmosphere in the house.
How to find out what the chosen one needs? Just ask him what is the highest value in a relationship and ask for specific examples. By analyzing what has been said, you will get accurate information.
Rule 2: Control Conflicts
How to properly apply the acquired knowledge? You may not always be able to determine the reaction of a partner, but this will not prevent you from quarrels and breakups. Agree on honesty: each of you should report slips and mistakes to the other. So you establish an emotional connection - conflicts will go out before they start.
Rule three: don't be fooled
If a man does not know for sure what he needs in a relationship, constantly changes values, gets confused in them, or demands their simultaneous implementation at the best level, run away from him. Such a partner will never be satisfied with you and your union, which means that he will not be able to make you happy either.
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Favorite phrase: “you know, they told me here ...”
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